SOUL SISTERS

I never thought that someday i 'd be dedicating a page of my blog to a piece of writing called 'sisters'.
lol.. probably because i have always taken them too forgranted to think about any such flashy act.
but here i am .. a writing written with loads of love and affection.
if someone would ask me to define the word 'sister' i'd say 'constant support and unnecessary pampering'. because to me, this is what sisterhood is all about.
i have always been a sort of person who would take pleasure in her own company, finding new ways to entertain myself, content with my solitude and turning it into an adventure. so everyone who has put up with me so far is an incredible person! 
and when i look at the list all i see, are my sisters =) both biological and non biological ;)
i know, this is a controversial statement but i dont expect many of you to understand this. so shut the 'make sense' gene and read this as it is ...
Abda and Misbah were born to the same mother as me so we have this biological thing here but please dont get fooled by this. this doesn't mean that we were best buddies from the nappy times. most of my life i have been tortured by Abda( who happens to b 4 years my elder) that i was brought to mom by a massi in a red basket . screw you for that!
it look a hell lot of hard work to become frnds with my sister and i HAVE to take all the credit for this one! she was always the quiet, nerd type. sitting in a corner, doing homework on time sort. 
so when she was in college, i finally noticed her and decided to bring a change in her life and so i did. i bugged her day and night to the point where she couldn't ignore me and took me in her friend's circle and the rest is history. 
How i persuaded her to show some excitement towards life is another long story. some other time.( =p , i know Abda you'd want to kill me for this baby but i cant deny the truth! )
Actually, that was the time when i realized what a beautiful person she is, concealed from our eyes but someone who has strength, wisdom, insight, sensitivity and what not!
and misbah... ummm i dont exactly recall how I made this one possible :D but even mom agrees that misbah was weird!(jk) i mean she never spoke or  participated in any activity. she would just sit (or stand) and stare until you were pissed but that 'was called analyzing. Again, my stupid summary was proven wrong when i got to know my 3 year younger sister. she is creative, sharp, quick witted and have one of the best sense of humors in the world!
in our teens, we had finally managed to make a perfect 'trika'. we would laugh like crazies on our problems, make fun of each other and everyone around, take random turns, enjoy our mistakes, console each other in bad times, help eachother to get through, give strength and advice, live the moments and always stick together!
BTW this word 'stick' reminds me of university times. me and Abda, fortunetly or unfrtunetly, went to the same college and we would just STICK together, wherever and whenever :D to everyone's great annoyance.

Side by side another heart touching story flourished as well. when i reached sixth standard, i found this pretty 'mama's girl' in my class. she was neat , obedient, well behaved, quiet, a class topper.. shortly she was everything i was not. one random day, i saw 'Hanaa Noaman' sitting quietly during break. this was heavy on my heart so i walked up to her and offered her a walk outside. reluctantly she agreed ( probably she was scared of me) and that we day we had our first chat which led to the never ending chats till today. since that day , me and Hanaa are inseparable. the best of the best friends a.k.a sisters!
Zainab Qadir is another one in my life who has this huge space in my heart. we both took all the time of this world to reach to the point where we are standing firmly right now and each day we grow to be more fond of each other. till 10th grade, she was a good friend. In college, she moved to BH and that's when the the story began. we missed each other's company and stupid jokes, wrote each other lengthy letters describing the loneliness, new college, the girls.. we backbit, gossiped, bitched in our conversations, we threw parties and went to all the extremes of fun.
we decided to accept eachother just the way we were.. no changes.. minor or major!
Although me and  ZQ have alot in common.. e.g the tendancy to talk bullshit, silly imagination, ruining someone's perfect moment, bitching to the height but there is a sensitive part to both of us that we have discovered and i guess that's our friendship niche. that has us hooked.. forever!

lastly, here comes Maliha Shah. 'leah' to be frank. i officially met her in my univerisity's 6th semester. at the time where i was perfectly comfortable and at peace with my 3 best friends and wasnt looking for another.
but that's the funny part. she never became my friend, she directly sublimed into my sister.
starting from one sleepover in  my 7th semester, this bond is growing since. she fitted in our lives so perfectly that we all were caught by surprise. even shy misbah was perfectly fine and that got me thinking' she is my lost sister... definitely she is' and time proved me right :)
when i have noone to  talk to or rather when i am in my biting mode where i dont wanna talk to anyone, leah is the one who always comes to my rescue. she understands me completely and i never hesitate to spill it all in front of her. no matter how silly my problem is, she takes it all in.
i have so much to write about these gorgeous ladies but time and space is the issue. i know i have smiles all over this writing but that is what sister's are all about!
no matter how bad the situation is or in how deep shit you are in, you'd always find them standing by ur side, lifting your spirits, give a piece of their mind, returning you, your confidence and smile and never allowing you to stand alone!

we have grown old... but i am waiting for our reunion this year when we'll giggle like 11 year olds. GOD blessus, always!

how old?
ABDA ........ a PhD fellow in UMB, Norway.
MISBAH ....... a fresh graduate of BurnHall College, Pakistan
MALIHA..... Master's student in IUJ, Japan
HANAA..... graduate of FJWU, Pakistan
ZQ..... Final year Med student in WMC, Pakistan
ME.. Master's student in CIIT, Pakistan
 ;)